There is No Magic Bullet

If I could just get this ______ I’d be able to _________.

Check yourself: Be honest, is this question running through your mind, “If I can just get my hands on this “one thing”, then I’ll be able to do this or that?”

Yes,

…Now will that happen if you did?

Not Likely!

There generally isn’t “one thing” that will magically speed up your progress or make your reach your goal.

Now since I personally do not like to say “never”…I will instead tell you that rarely will there ever be a Quick Fix Solution.

Yes, miracles do happen and I for one absolutely believe in them and manifest them daily in my own life.

…but even miracles require the action of certain spiritual laws that YOU must put to WORK to cause their manifestation.

So is the same with growth and achievement. You have do the work and that involves many moving parts

So why do we look for a Magic Bullet?

Here is a common reason why.

You Want To Get Results Faster

Some argue that it’s laziness that makes people pursue magic bullets.

That could be true, but another perspective to consider is that It’s about trying to figure out how to get where you want to be faster.

When you are fresh on the hunt for a better way of life or self, you really really want that experience to be your reality “ right now.”

The Risk is and it’s a Tweetable: 

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So you look for methods to make the acquisition easier and quicker.

The Unsexy Truth here is that you can’t quick fix your new reality, it will require Synergy.

And Synergy requires taking the time to develop new skills and abilities.

{Sorry, I know you wanted to avoid this.}

True growth is a complex process that involves a lot of moving parts and time.

You do have everything you need to create the life you want and desire in your life today.

But what you must learn is how to put to skillful use of all the moving parts.

Until you have the synergy in use your will be in a Capability Gap.

An Uncertainty Phase I am especially skilled at helping you with through my Certainty Coaching so that you can reach the synergy where nothing is impossible for you.

One of the capabilities that you will need to develop is skillful use of The Law of Detachment.

The Law of Detachment is the spiritual law that compliments law The Law of Attraction.

Basically the way The Law of Detachment works is: ALIGN with your vision but let go of the HOW.

So vibrationally you want to feel as if you HAVE your desired object right now and at the same time, let go of needing to control the outcome by embracing Uncertainty.

Otherwise, you will end up attracting the opposite of what you desire.

Do you know how to embrace Uncertainty?

It’s one of the necessities to get Free 2 Thrive so that you can have an extraordinary life.

Walk by Faith…

Faith takes time to develop, “one thing” is not going to give you the faith to create your new reality.

You are a spiritual being and much much more powerful than you realize.

You will have to develop the skills to function in that higher vibrational space that you desire to be in.

You have God on your side and his entire Universe …including all the Spiritual Laws the govern this world ready to aid you.

“We are His workmanship created in Christ Jesus for good works which God prepared beforehand so that we would walk in them.” Eph 2:10

Remember everything you need is already in you and already here.

Your solution to your capability gap is not to look for and obtain a Magic Bullet to shorten your time frame…this isn’t possible anyway.

But to allow yourself to develop the capability to grow and change.

As for laziness, it’s simple…get off your ass!

For the rest of us:

The bottom line is I know you want to get to the tipping point faster but if you neglect building the capability within you and pursue quick one-step fixes, you’ll later find that is was an illusion you were chasing that has cost you a lot of time and money.

What “Magic Bullets” have you tried? How did that work out for you? Let me know in the comments below.

This is the first installment in a series Titled: Unsexy Truth of Personal Growth. Look for upcoming additions to the series soon.

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Lana McMurray is the founder of Free 2 Thrive Coaching LLC. She is a Growing Certainty Coach for ambitious people trapped in all-too-ordinary lives. She helps entrepreneurs, creatives and business owners successfully navigate Uncertainty as they go through their unavoidable Journey of Growth. She understands the many ways that risk-taking, self starting people secretly undermine themselves and stop the growth process. She helps them stay True to Themselves so that grow into their extraordinary lives. 

She also personally knows that “Life can be Messy” and there is a unique difficulty in being an Entrepreneur, Creative or Business Owner who is seeking to to be “True to Themselves” and grow their lives and businesses but at home is dealing with toxic a relationship. As an overcomer of Verbal/Emotional Abuse, she helps them gain Clarity and make empowering decisions. To get your F*R*E*E Trainings and weekly Growth Support visit www.free2thrivecoaching.com