CONFIDENCE: 7 TIPS TO HAVE OPRAH LIKE CONFIDENCE
Oprah comes to most of our minds when we think about being powerfully confident in business and life. We’d love to have her strength but are we willing to put in the work and adjust our mindsets to enjoy her lifestyle?
You do want to be confident like Oprah don’t you?
Here are some tips on how to be more Oprahish:
#1. See Yourself with Your Own Eyes
Who you are being right now is based on how you see yourself. This self image is initially constructed from how others have and do see you, how you’ve been treated and are treated now and from all the conclusions you have drawn from these experiences as well as how you have compared yourself to others. A Powerful self viewpoint is based on your Essential Being, not from the value placed on you by other people. You can reform your inner image to align with your true self and have a regular quiet deep gladness about who you are. Become aware of the past programming that has created the person you are being now.
#2. Love Yourself With Your Own Heart
Be the supplier of the love you need, other people can’t complete this task or fill this tank. To become a master of loving yourself you have to practice loving yourself. The real you is pure love. The real you is confident and self assured draw this strength out of you by practicing love for yourself.
Know that there is a power greater than yourself and get to know that power. Spend time in solitude, take a walk through nature, worship with praise music, go for a run, do whatever it is that brings you close to the Source of Life, God and be still inside and feel the love and strength in that connection.
#4. Pleasure Yourself
Reconnect with what delights you. Especially if your a woman. Men don’t seem to have this problem of doing what feels good without guilt or shame. Engaging in things that bring you pleasure is a necessary ingredient for confidence. The desire you feel is an initiating force that will propel the speed of your goals, dreams and wishes. Indulging in pleasure is fortifying.
Look at your life through the lens of being on a journey instead of on a path to reach a particular destination. Consider the events, situations and circumstances of your life as experiences that show you who you are and that give you the opportunity to decide if what you see if what you’d like to keep. This defuses the power of self criticism and self doubt.
#6. Trust Your Gut
You know what is right for you and don’t need anyone to teach you. When everyone else is trying to tell you what you should do and what you shouldn’t do trust your gut. Develop your intuition by following your gut. Your gut will never lead you wrong. Trust you gut more than anyone’s opinion.
#7. Open Your Mind to the Possibilities
Know that you are not trapped or stuck. Get educated about spirituality, quantum physics, faith etc. Read the bible, read books that expand your consciousness and teach you who you are and how to work universal laws and surrender to the innate capabilities within you. Find out what all possibilities are out there and take authority over your life experience.
Lana McMurray, Self Recovery Mentor, is Owner and Founder of Free 2 Thrive Coaching LLC, www.free2thrivecoaching.com, a Company helping people to break out of their self made prisons and free their REAL Self! She assist clients with getting out of their comfort zones and their own way. As a result of their work together, clients depart from people pleasing, codependency and paralyzing fear and become aware of themselves and awaken into being bold, confident and fully alive. She enjoys working confidentially with people on issues that have been troubling them for a long time but they just didn’t know who to talk to about it.
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